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Sleaze. Fetish. Action!
The world of BDSM is a somewhat taboo, underground subject. The idea of tying someone up, gagging them and inflicting pain sends shivers down many spines. But it seems that the gay community is lapping up the art of sadomasochism as many gay bars and clubs in London are embracing this form of sexual pleasure and hosting leather and bondage nights.
Let us personally welcome you to the world of gay fetish, sleaze and bondage! A quick Google search will demonstrate the popularity of fetishes in the gay population with the results list populate mainly by gay fetish porn sites and information portals.
So, what exactly qualifies a fetish?
A fetish is traditionally known as a sexual attraction to an object or activity, not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature. This can include pretty much anything that turns a person on, however the most common fetishes include feet, transvestitism, voyeurism (“peeping toms”) and exhibitionism (sex outside).
Many people refer to fetishism as an obsession, so called because in many cases sexual climax cannot be achieved unless the fetish is involved. With the increasing influence of the internet and our growing liberal society, having a fetish does not really interfere with leading a perfectly normal sex life. However in some instances, the obsession can be so persistent and extreme that therapy is needed to curb the impulsive fetish.
‘Masters & Slaves' and ‘Sub/Dom' activities also fall under the umbrella of S&M, with many gay men enjoying a power dynamic in the relationship. Being dominated or dominating someone can be an extremely satisfying activity that lots of people partake in. Shops and websites such as Expectations offer S&M lovers the opportunity to purchase fetish clothing and apparel.
Sensory deprivation is traditionally used as a relaxation method in which an isolation tank is used for meditation. Taken to more extreme lengths, sensory deprivation is used by the fetish-driven to provide an intensely pleasurable experience. Mummification, or being completely encased in several materials is known as ‘edge play'. The bottom is placed in a complete state of helplessness whilst the top dominates. Needless to say, those who decide to practice such extreme activities must be aware of the safety measures that must be taken.
